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One More Thing: Stories and Other Stories

IMG_8177Well…I am going to begin by apologizing to those of you that are not fans of the short story format.  I am one of those people.  I like short stories but having to read an entire book of them can be difficult to garner enthusiasm to finish the book.  This is a lesson learned for me and hopefully I will not introduce another one any time soon.

On a positive note, the short stories were funny!  Some more than others but they all had wit, sarcasm, and cynicism…some of my favorite sentiments.  If I were to pick a favorite, it has to be “The Rematch”.  This story taken from the fable of the Tortoise and the Hare is so well written that you can imagine that this is the follow up to the original Aesop’s Fable The Tortoise and the Hare.  Who hasn’t wondered what happened to the Hare after his devastating loss to the Tortoise?  I really enjoyed that these two characters let the moment define them for the better and worse.  And I like that there is a story of redemption and also that it has a moral.  It teaches the lesson that we can be impetuous and cocky but if we learn the lesson we can be redeemed with hard work and concerted effort.  This was by far my favorite of all of the short stories.

My other top short stories include “Sophia”, “Kellogg’s” and “Never Fall in Love.” The story of “Sophia” was so cleverly written about a female sex robot.  Sophia was perfect in every way and, yet, he didn’t want her anymore once she showed emotion.  Currently, human nature does not allow for empathy and we find ourselves isolated by fear of others emotions, which does not allow us to have true relationships.  In “Kellogg’s”, my favorite statement is that he loved his parents but “I was a name-brand kid, and I was meant to have a name-brand life.”  We all feel like we don’t belong to the family that we grew up with.  We feel so different from them but we never act on it because eventually we turn into them.  This character refuses to be his parents and acts on his need to be different.  I enjoyed “Never Fall in Love” for its brevity and to-the-point message.  It is true that once we stop looking for something, it comes to us organically.

Although this is not one of my favorite books, I can appreciate the messages ironically delivered through these extremely short blurbs.  It’s not a format that I like and I think some of the messages could have been built into greater, longer stories. I admire the author’s ability to execute the stories but just wish there had been more of a driven plotline or an overreaching lesson captured throughout the stories.  Maybe a book of fables?

 

What did you think of the short story format?  Like? Dislike?

Which was your favorite story in the book?

What was your favorite sentiment throughout the book?

Would you have organized the stories differently?  How?

Could the author have combined the stories to make one fluid novel?  Was there a theme?

January Book

IMG_8177Introducing the January book selection…it is “One More Thing: Stories and Other Stories” by B.J. Novak.

He is one of my favorite sitcom writers and you may recognize him as one of the writers (and actors) on the show The Office.  He is hilarious as a performer and as a writer.  I am looking forward to reading his book…hope you are too!

I will post my review on January 30th so lets get to reading this very funny book 😉

Happy 2016 y’all!

Everything I Never Told You

Wow, talk about thinking a book is one thing but it totally surprises you with a twist.  In the beginning, we automatically think this book is only about Lydia dying and who did it, but the plot thickens as we move towards a motive for her death.  There are so many details in this short little book and each one of them is devastatingly important to Lydia.

We are introduced to a pushy mother who is living out her dreams through her oldest daughter.  We have a father living out his social ineptitude through his oldest daughter.  And we have two siblings who are forgotten ad ignored, yet are fulfilling the parent’s desires without notice.  The pressures placed on Lydia by both of her parents are the undoing of this family.   I think this story truly provides reflection on how our individual actions affect others around us.  In this case, we have two selfish adults (the parents) who are clearly so self-involved with their own angst and self-pity that they have projected their insecurities onto a child.  We all want our children to do better than ourselves, but at what cost?  It seems that the parents have convinced themselves that for their one child to succeed, she must do everything they always wanted to do but couldn’t.

This book touches on racial divides, gender expectations and suicide.  It is so easy to see the domino effect of our actions and our choices.  This book has the actual end result of projecting our desires onto our children.  A very well written story with so much detail and dysfunction to make us all question our true motives with our children and the potential effects it will have on them.  Lydia states on page 225 that “For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.”  For every push towards something, there is a pull away from it.  And Lydia’s mother finally concedes that after seeing everything in Lydia’s room and knowing everything that she had wanted for Lydia, that it “had dragged Lydia underwater at last” (page 247).  A very solemn conclusion but a final realization of what they had done to her.

 

What was your first thought about Lydia’s death?  What are your initial thoughts about Lydia’s parents?

Who is responsible for Lydia’s death?  Is 16 too young to make your own decisions?  What age makes you responsible versus blaming actions on your parents?

What is your final assessment of Lydia’s parents?  Do you believe the parents will change knowing what truly happened to Lydia?  Why do you think that they both chose Lydia as their symbol of success and not Nath or Hannah?

How do you think their relationships with Nath will change?  How will it change with Hannah?

If you are a parent, how did this story affect you?  Did you reflect on your own relationship with your child/children? Where do you draw the line with your kids on pushing them to do better?

What do you think of the title of the book?

December Book

IMG_7584The book that I will be reading next is Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng.  I picked another shorter book so that we can enjoy our holidays and get through some of our stress without stressing about a book!  I have heard great things and hope you will read it with me.  Let’s shoot for December 30th as our last day of reading and I will post questions the following day.  Enjoy!

First Read…The Boy in the Striped Pajamas

IMG_7382I am so glad that I chose this book as our first because, as you found out, this little book has so much to say!  I am blown away by the impactful message this story conveyed and I am equally as inspired by its storytelling.  When you opened this little book, I hope that you noticed that the author labeled it as a fable.  By definition, a fable is a morality tale but is usually told through animals or inanimate objects.  This fable was told through a naïve young boy and this may have been the author’s effort to give us a naïve vessel to convey his story.

Nonetheless, this story was captivating from beginning to end.  We have a young boy telling a Holocaust story through his inexperienced eyes.  We don’t really know that it is a Holocaust story at first but little hints provided by the young boy, Bruno, lead us to that conclusion.  Even in the boys inability to say Auschwitz (he continually says “Out-With” even when corrected), shows the reader that Bruno has not been marred by the inexplicable things that are happening right outside his door.  Despite the evidence that something evil is happening in “Out-With”, Bruno remains untouched and unscathed.  Bruno is presented, time and time again with evidence of the happenings on the other side of the fence and yet he continues to live in his own bubble.  In Bruno’s discussions with Shmuel, Shmuel continually tells Bruno what is happening from his perspective and Bruno does not hear him.  Bruno continues to discuss his feasts, toys, three story house, etc.  These two boys are narrating their lives without expecting a response. Hey are each providing the pieces of the puzzle that links the two worlds at “Out-With” but they are not putting them together to help one another.  If they had listened, primarily Bruno to Shmuel, they may have understood what was actually happening there.

The message here can be as simple as a retelling of a Holocaust story or it can viewed as a deeper reflection of our current world and how, we as a society, can overlook the suffering of others by being self-involved and egocentric.  We can choose to be removed from crimes against humanity or we can choose to help.  Bruno could have stood up to the Lieutenant and claimed his friend, he could have told his family about Shmuel, and he or any of his family could have stopped Pavel’s beating.  Sometimes we don’t act until it’s too late and it directly affects us.

 

Do you think that that the fable presentation successfully helped to tell this story?  Would you have enjoyed it if it had been in a different literary format?

Why do you think that the author keeps Bruno naïve until the very end?  What does that say about society as a whole?  Is there a bigger message?

Why is Bruno blind to the concentration camp even when presented with Pavel and Shmuel?  What do they represent?

Why is Bruno’s family and Maria unaware of Bruno’s friendship?  Where do they think he goes to explore?

What do you think happened to Pavel? What happened to the Lieutenant?

What did you think of this story?  What message did you get from it?

Hello book buddies!

This is a book club!  We may not see each other face-to-face or meet at the local coffee shop but I guarantee we are going to read some great books and have some great discussions!

To say that I love to read is an understatement.  I truly LOVE to read and will ignore my entire family if I am totally into my book.  But, it’s because I can appreciate the labor that goes into a well thought out story and its so rude to interrupt a crucial plot point!  I enjoy that reading takes me to other places or that it makes me see things in a totally different way.  I feel like reading can be a way for us to understand the human condition whether it’s through humor, sadness or angst.  My favorite part of reading though is the discussion aspect.  It makes me feel like I know people better by the way they respond to a story, whether it’s in agreement or against what I feel.

By education, I was an English Literature major but I have to confess that while I do enjoy the classics and have my favorites, it’s some of the contemporary novels that are really sparking my interest these days.  I have my moods that must also be satisfied…sometimes I want funny and sometimes I want sad.  Sometimes biographical and sometimes fantasy.

My hope for this blog is to generate some thoughtfulness on humanity…but mostly, it is my selfish desire to have some friends and family to talk about books with!  So come along with me and we can figure out where we want the next story to take us.

Happy reading y’all!  Jennifer

Wild…The book that changed my perspective on death

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I have decided to start with the book “Wild” by Cheryl Strand because the first thing my husband said to me was that this was “not my style” of book.  He was referring to the fact that he thought it was about hiking and being outdoorsy…and I am neither of those two things.  In spite not being knowledgeable about hiking, I decided that it seemed like an interesting story about a woman who is lost after the death of her mother.  I had also just lost my dad and had really not dealt with his passing due to being the mom of two small kiddos.  After all, who has time to grieve when your little people have daily needs?  I couldn’t have needed this book more!  Every description from the tag line “From Lost to Found” on the front cover described my life, albeit she had some different obstacles to overcome, but really aren’t we all the same in our grief? This book was so beautifully written, with the openness of living through something you thought you might not survive.  The author is so brutally honest with what she was going through and it was a moment by moment description that made you feel her pain as it was happening.  I have to admit that there were moments I wasn’t sure what her outcome would be but I had to know and I was cheering for her at every bend in the road.  I also felt all of her depths in grief.  I have never known the pain of drug addiction but I still felt her sadness and understood the need to make the sadness go away.  On page 24, she says that “My mother died fast but not all of a sudden.”  Terminal illness is a fog of hospital rooms, doctors, therapists, medical equipment, sad and happy moments, memories and final release.  There is so much happening around you that you set aside what is happening and deal with the momentum of the day and time still goes quickly. On page 127, a stranger tells Cheryl the symbolism of the feather, a corvid, and says it’s from a “raven or crow, a symbol of the void…It’s the place where things are born, where they begin.” She further describes it as a black hole that “absorbs energy and then releases it as something new and alive.” I see such a pivotal moment for Cheryl, she is to be reborn and renewed but at the moment she still doesn’t see it within herself. Sometimes we need “signs” to help show us where we are and where we are headed. Do you think the hiker Doug gave it to her knowing the meaning and symbolism of the feather? In the next few pages (page 151), Cheryl reflects that “I could feel my mother’s presence so acutely, her absence so profoundly, that it was hard to focus on the words.” The juxtaposition of feeling the profound absence of a person while feeling surrounded by a person is real, especially when their impact on your life was so great. It is an overwhelming sensation. So, not everyone can or will hike the Pacific Crest Trail to come to terms with grief or to get their life together but we can all experience things out of our comfort zone that help to learn about ourselves and what we are capable of. Sometimes the strength was always within us but something greater has to happen for it to expose itself.

What did you like/dislike about the books underlying view of death?

What was the point of telling the story of the horse?

Do you have a grief story? Did this book help or hurt you?

Why did you read the book? What did you get out of it?

What is your Pacific Crest Trail?

Did you like the movie version?

Saddest Story Ever But So, So Good

IMG_7182Wow, just thinking about this story again makes me teary eyed.  In one word, it is sad.  But, I just couldn’t put it down and finished it quickly.  I had to see how it ended.  It is a depressing story but in a very cathartic way that will have you thinking about how we live and how we die.  It had me thinking that if I died today, would I regret not living my life to its fullest?  Would I know that I had lived everyday doing what I love?  Did I say the things I needed to say to those I love?  I loved that it pairs two unlikely people and because of their circumstances in life, they are forced together at a point in time that will change them forever.  This book brings up the topic of death and how we deal with it as humans.  Mostly, we don’t talk about it.  It addresses assisted death and its necessity to those that suffer.  I have always felt that if this is someone’s choice and they are suffering, why not let them choose their ending?  This book deals with not just the patient’s choice but how it affects their family and friends. I think that it also provides a very good rationalization for this character wanting this type of death.  I think that whether or not you believe in assisted death, you need to read this beautiful book.  It is empathetic to both sides and even though I am a proponent of it, I still didn’t want it to end the way it did.  There was still hope I felt but I also understood that it was time.  It is a beautifully written story about a subject that is extremely sensitive.

What was your first impression of Will?  Of Louisa?

What did you think of Lou and being forced into working for Will?  What would you have done in the same situation?

At what point do you feel that the Will/Lou relationship changes?

What was your reaction to the way Lou responds at the end to Will’s final decision?

How did you think it would end?  What would you have changed?

How did your impression of Will and Lou change from the beginning of the story?

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